By was hurting on Monday, May 9, 2005 - 07:22 am:
to hurting: I was the oldest. My mom favored my younger brother. She almost totally ignored me. I can see the changes it caused in my personality, character, and life.
Still, I have to realize that this upbringing made me very strong. Very independent.
I came to understand and love my mother before she died. I'm so happy now and wish you the same.
By hurting on Saturday, May 14, 2005 - 05:49 am:
No such luck. My brother and I are just by products of the wedding. Sis is and has it all....ma's loss. It's a shame to cause such pain to her unwanted family.