By cheryl mi on Wednesday, November 10, 2004 - 09:19 am:
I lost my father,Ransom Cundy on the Edmund Fitzgerald on Nov 10.1975. I had heard the night before that a boat was missing on Lake Sperior. Naturally my first thought was of my Dad. I said a prayer praying that he was safe. The next morning I got my children off to school except my two little ones. I turned on the TV and it was there. THE EDMUND FITZGERALD HAD SANK IN LAKE SUPERIOR. My little boy remembers me screaming.I think I went into a state of shock! It was a terrible rainy mixed with snow and high winds day on Nov 11th in Hubbell,Mi where I lived at the time. I packed up my kids & went to my Aunt's house for the day. We called the priest who tried to give me comfort. He later told my older children of the loss of their grandfather. I went to Superior,Wisconsin for a memorial service on Nov,13th. I shook through the entire service & some man I didn't know came over & held me. I knew right from the start that my Dad was gone. He had told me you can only survive only a few minutes in Lake Superior. And when I was young , I had asked him what he would do if his ship sank. His reply:Cotton(my nickname from him)I'd Go down with the ship, I can't even dogpaddle. I now feel that my Dad is resting in peace. I had met the Captain and Dad's best friend, Freddie Beecher earlier. Since then I have met with almost all of the families & they reflect on this day too. We're in full agreement that the site where the Edmund Fitzgerald lies should be treated as their consercrated gravesite. There is a 7:00 P.M. service at the Whitefish Point Museum near Paraside, Michigan tonight where the 29 men will be remembered & honored. Unforunately I won't be able to go. Please keep these men in your thoughts today. They put up a valent struggle with Mother Nature & eventually lost. Also remember all of our servicemen putting up a valent struggle to win the war that they're fighting.
The man on the left is Cheryl's Father. The man on the right is Ed/MI, who posted the link to boatnerd.com above.