By mickill mouse (Ram4) on Sunday, October 4, 2015 - 02:40 pm:
A friend of mine, who loved his family and loved life, had cancer. It started as a spot on his lung and spread throughout his body to his brain.
I was in my middle 20's and working. On the way home from work I would stop by and say 'hi' to him and his family. One day I stopped by and they had him up in a wheelchair, could barely breathe. He called by a nickname that only he use to call me. He gave me a bit of advice, while trying to take a breathe in between words. He told me every time I stop by all I do is complain about everything, then he told me, 'No matter what might be going on in your life, put a smile on your face and if somebody asks you how you are doing, tell them you are doing fine even if you are not, and you will find and see that everything will be better.' I went home that night and took a shower and got into bed, the whole time thinking about it. About 11:00 o clock THAT night they called me to tell me he passed away.
I loved posting out here, but not that much anymore. I found that, at times, a person just about has to reveal things that maybe they do not want to talk about. A person sometimes just wants to come out here to get away from what is going on in their life without having to do a profile of themselves or where they are from or if they work or not. If a person wants to do that, it should be done offline. JUST MY OPINION.
I read a lot of postings from 1998 and people seemed so nice back then, talking about the pictures and what they might have to contribute to the pictures, a story that they remember, not anymore.
I try to live up to what a very special person said to me, my friend, before he died, and that is what I was trying to do out here, but I kept getting slammed all the way around.
No matter what I am going through in my life, all I wanted to do was post a few messages from time to time.
This person was a friend because he took me aside, before he died, and told me the truth. And I miss him to this day.
By Waveaction (Lakelover) on Sunday, October 4, 2015 - 02:48 pm:
Now that, was one of the best posts I have seen in a very long time.
Life can be a challenge at times but we have to just keep smiling. Sometimes people are like weeds but just remember, a weed is actually a flower in the wrong place.